That is the question I get asked all the time, and one that I have asked people myself when I want to let them know that I share the pain of what they are going through. My favorite way of showing people compassion is to make a cake/cookies/lasagna and fill them up with comfort food. The easiest way to comfort my soul is fresh flowers. I am thankful that I have people in my life who celebrate my ups and downs with thoughtful gestures. For that I am extremely grateful.